First. Let's get something out of the way - I'm a working guy who dresses in feminine attire. I will often start a show not dressed and dress up... and I will often undress completely when I am done, just to reveal what's behind the wizard's curtain. My feminine side is just as much a part of me as my masculine side is... so DEAL!
Dressing, for me, does not imply intercourse. It doesn't even imply gender (but let's not go down that rabbit hole). These activities are not inherently linked in my mind. I dress up like a woman because I'm a guy who likes how women look... go figure. Besides, women's clothing is more comfortable, more expressive, and I tend to be an expressive person.
In the same vein, I masturbate because I like orgasms. I see nothing wrong with this and find it to be a normal part of being a human being (male or female). However I'm not addicted to it and sometimes I just like to chat and talk about my amazing good looks. Chat with me long enough and you might even recognize my very dry and sarcastic sense of humor.
Second. I'm not going to take my clothes off just because you say so. I'll take them off when I'm damn good and ready to. Do you even realize how long it takes to go from being me to being sexy me? The me you're currently jerking off to? Have you even tried it? Are you even courageous enough to show your face on a site like this? I bet I know the answers to all of these questions just by why you say to me or others on this site.
Third. I don't take kindly to insults to me or others in my room. I respect people, in case you didn't notice, and I expect my audience to as well. At all times... you will treat everyone here respectfully. I'm not your slut or any other word you're thinking of (unless I want to be).
While you're here, I demand only one thing from you and that is to respect me and respect each other. Dressing up takes a lot of work... and anyone who can present that other side of themselves to the world is courageous.
I really have no tolerance for people who treat others like shit. I'm all for kinky play but if you disrespect anyone in my room, I will make it my mission in life to destroy yours. It would be a mistake to think I don't know how.
And Finally. You'll notice I don't have any restrictions in my room. Bots or spammers will earn an instant ban, but if you have something to say; I won't stop you. I don't require donations. I don't set a 'goal'. I consider myself fortunate to be able to do this and I live a relatively comfortable life. I dress for fun and I come here for fun.
However I realize there are some who aren't as fortunate.
Donate to a charity instead of me. I continue to give to many that I think are worth it and I implore everyone to do the same. Hell, if you need to get rid of some of that post-orgasmic guilt... there's the perfect the way to do it.
Cross-educating:
There's a lot of misconceptions about crossdressing and most are wrong. Crossdressing is not a sexual preference. Have you always been curious and don't know how to start? Do you already do it in secret and think less of yourself for it? Are you on this site and think there's something wrong with you because you are? I beg you to talk to me, or someone. You are not alone. I'm not a crisis counselor or anything but if you want to talk to someone in complete anonymity about how you feel... just know I've been where you are.
Reality: I'm a guy who enjoys dressing in what is traditionally female garb.
Reality: Other people need money more than I do http://www.extra-life.org/
I won't say no to a donation or gift but I always try to give to others as much as I give to her. If you don't know what I mean when I say that, maybe this channel isn't for you.